Intimacy Counselling
Improving intimacy and sexual relationship
with your spouse
Who taught you about sex in relationships?
If you’re like most people the answer is no one. Intimacy and a healthy sex life are fundamental to any strong relationship. However, many couples struggle to maintain these aspects in the long term. The initial spark can fade as daily life and responsibilities set in, leaving intimacy neglected. Emotional barriers, communication breakdowns, children, and mismatched desires can further complicate matters. As a result, couples often feel disconnected, which can lead to frustration and misunderstandings.
Nicholas Purcell recognises these challenges and offers a supportive space for Adelaide couples to explore their intimacy concerns. He works with couples to identify emotional and physical barriers, helping them rediscover mutual understanding and closeness. Through open discussions, guided exercises, and practical strategies, Nicholas assists couples in communicating their needs, understanding each other’s desires, and rekindling their connection.
Whether addressing longstanding intimacy issues or seeking to improve an already good relationship, Nicholas empowers couples to cultivate a fulfilling, healthy sex life. By learning to openly express love and affection, couples can strengthen their emotional bond, deepen their intimacy, and build a relationship rooted in trust and mutual satisfaction.
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Understand
First you have to understand why your relationship is experiencing intimacy issues.
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Try new skills
Once you understand you’re going to have to commit to trying some new things
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Practice until you succeed
You will fail, that’s part of the path to success. But next time you’ll fail a little less. Eventually you’ll get it right.
"Sensible and knowledgable, with a great ability to put one at ease. I felt listened to without judgement and I have started to understand why my husband and I could not resolve our problems."
— JM & BW
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FAQs
Where are you located in Adelaide?
I have two offices, one in Flinders St in the city, and another in North Adelaide.
What is intimacy counselling, and how can it help my relationship?
Intimacy counselling is designed to help couples reconnect emotionally and physically. It provides a safe space to discuss challenges, build understanding, and find new ways to communicate needs and desires, fostering a more fulfilling intimate life.
How long does it take to see improvements in our intimacy?
Progress varies by couple. Some notice positive changes in communication and intimacy after a few sessions, while others need more time. The pace depends on the issues at hand and how actively couples engage with the counselling process.
Will intimacy counselling address issues beyond physical intimacy?
Yes, intimacy counselling often explores emotional intimacy too. Emotional connection is crucial to a satisfying relationship, and the counselling process helps partners understand each other’s emotional needs while developing effective communication skills.
What if my partner is embarrassed or unwilling to talk about intimacy issues?
This is common. Encouraging open, non-judgemental dialogue about your shared goals can help. A good therapist creates a comfortable environment where both partners feel safe to discuss sensitive topics.
Is it normal to have mismatched libidos, and can counselling help with that?
Yes, differing desires are normal. Intimacy counselling helps couples understand each other’s libido levels and work on compromises that respect both partners’ needs and foster a satisfying relationship.
What if we feel disconnected or embarrassed talking about intimacy during counselling?
Feeling disconnected or awkward is understandable, but I will guide you gently. Counselling provides tools to reduce embarrassment and start honest, respectful conversations that gradually bring you closer together.