Healthy Relationship Counselling
Improving the health of your relationship
What does a healthy, adult
relationship feel like?
A healthy adult relationship is crucial for the stability of a long-term partnership and the happiness of both partners. Building a strong foundation requires mutual respect, open communication, and shared values. When adults take responsibility for their actions, they contribute to a secure and positive environment where both individuals feel heard, valued, and connected. This sense of responsibility helps partners navigate challenges together and fosters a cycle of positivity, allowing both people to thrive individually and as a couple.
Nicholas Purcell works with Adelaide couples to guide them in making healthy, responsible choices that enrich their relationships. He provides a supportive space where partners can explore their dynamics, uncover patterns that hinder their connection, and develop practical strategies for improvement. Through his guidance, couples learn to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and understand each other's needs to build a strong, loving relationship rooted in trust and understanding.
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Understand
First you have to understand what healthy adult relationship is and where your relationship might need some adjustments
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Try new skills
Once you understand you’re going to have to commit to trying some new things
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Practice until you succeed
You will fail, that’s part of the path to success. But next time you’ll fail a little less. Eventually you’ll get it right.
"We saw another counsellor who told me I was solely at fault for everything that wasn’t working in my marriage. I was devastated. Nicholas quickly corrected that idea and we are finally making actual progress."
— BM & SG
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FAQs
Where are you located in Adelaide?
I have two offices, one in Flinders St in the city, and another in North Adelaide.
What defines a healthy adult relationship?
A healthy adult relationship is characterised by mutual respect, open communication, and shared values. Both partners feel secure, valued, and heard while supporting each other's personal growth and making responsible choices for their relationship.
Why is effective communication so important in relationships?
Effective communication builds understanding and reduces misunderstandings. It allows partners to express their feelings and needs openly, resolve conflicts without escalating tensions, and strengthen their emotional connection.
How can couples balance independence and togetherness?
In a healthy relationship, partners find a balance between personal independence and shared activities. They encourage each other's pursuits while making time for quality moments together, respecting individual interests and fostering mutual support.
What role does responsibility play in a relationship?
Taking responsibility is vital for building trust and accountability. It means acknowledging mistakes, owning one's actions, and working towards positive change. Responsible behaviour strengthens the relationship and creates a secure, supportive environment.
How do healthy adult relationships handle conflict?
Healthy couples approach conflicts with a willingness to listen and understand each other's perspectives. They avoid blame and instead focus on finding solutions that work for both, leading to respectful resolutions and greater closeness.
How can couples strengthen their bond over time?
Couples can strengthen their relationship by maintaining open communication, prioritising quality time, expressing appreciation, and being attentive to each other's needs. Continual learning and growth keep the relationship vibrant and rewarding.