Nicholas Purcell Psychotherapist

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Should I Stay or Should I Go? When Marriage Gets Tough...

 

This article discusses the benefits and drawbacks of staying or going in a marriage. It recommends that couples get help from a therapist if they are struggling to decide whether to stay in or go out their marriage. - Ending your marriage is one of the most difficult decisions you have to make in your adult life. It takes a lot of courage to face this decision even if it seems that staying together would be the best option. Infidelity, financial difficulties, and lack of compatibility are some of the top reasons why people end their marriages. Most people consider infidelity as an "oh hell" moment and find it hard to leave their marriage because of it. The truth is that there are many different reasons why people decide to part ways and each situation is unique.

 

However, in most cases, when couples become most unhappy in their marriages, they are forced to decide whether to stay or go. In some instances, divorce is the only option left but taking the relationship to counseling is a much more sustainable option and can even result in a happy ending. It takes guts and a lot of hard work but sticking with it often pays off for couples who want to try and save their marriage.

 

Enjoying a happy union is possible for many couples. For younger married couples, it's especially important to stay the course if they start to face issues in their marriage. Research confirms that those who stay together are much more likely to enjoy happier unions than those who end up getting a divorce. Research suggests that the longer you stay together, the higher your chances of staying together for the long-term. This suggests that staying married for at least a decade can greatly increase your chances of enjoying a successful marriage.

 

For those couples who have had to contend with the betrayal of a professed unfaithful spouse, the decision to maintain their marriage is especially difficult. Keeping your marriage together after past adultery requires both partners to work through the pain of betrayal and focus on rebuilding trust. When a former lover enters the picture, it can be even more challenging for couples to grow closer. Divorce may be an option, but it is not always the best choice for couples seeking to remain together and maintain a friendship.

 

When marriage gets tough, the first step is to consider why the relationship is challenged and how it can be improved. The decision to end a relationship should not be taken lightly, as it could have long-term implications that could negatively impact your marriage. It is important to remember that relationships are energy, and if you are dealing with the same problematic thinking patterns, it is likely that you will continue to experience similar problems in other relationships. That being said, there are many reasons someone may decide to get a divorce.

 

Many couples go into marriage with the intention of staying together for life, but when things get tough, the decision of whether to stay or go can become a difficult one. Deciding on a course of action can be especially hard for couples who have invested many years into their marriage and have children together. It is important for any married couple considering a move in this direction to consider all options and life goals carefully before deciding on a final course of action. In some cases, once amicable separation can be the best option for both partners, allowing them to find partners that better fit their individual values and goals in life. In other cases, ending the relationship may not be necessary, and it may be possible to reconcile and remain married despite the gone butterflies. Ultimately each couple has different reasons for considering divorce as an option, so it is important to consider all factors before making any decisions.

 

Such marriages can be extremely painful and filled with fear, so it is understandable why many people decide to end the relationship. However, it is important to consider that staying in a marriage can be beneficial for some people who want to avoid the pain of divorce. A clinical social worker can help a couple work through their issues and meet their ends. I am one of those people who wants to stay in the marriage despite the tough times. I love my spouse and want to make things work for our family, especially seeing my children grow up in a healthy home environment. So I sought out help from social worker Susan, who specializes in crisis management and couples counseling. She helped me explain to my spouse why staying together was important for our long-term health as a family.

 

We discussed the importance of making marriage work and the success that comes with it. We also discussed how my own dreams, happiness and goals are important in a marriage and should be considered. We looked at our misunderstandings, and how we could work through them rather than call it quits. I also had to put effort into my marriage, as well as into pursuing my own dreams. We worked together to find a way forward despite the challenges we face. This composes the wake-up call that made me realize why our marriage is worth saving. We have taken on these problems hand in hand, both putting in effort to make this relationship work.

 

When marriage gets tough, couples should try marriage counseling to start with. This counseling type helps partners work on their relationship in a safe and objective environment. If the couple is not sure if they want to stay together or not, they may want to try discernment counseling. A counselor, pastor or divorce coach can help them decide what is best for both partners. It is important to find a trusted counselor who can help end their relationship if that is the better option for both partners.

 

Marriage therapy is a key factor when marriage gets tough. Treating your spouse with respect and understanding are essential to restoring the marriage. It is important that you get your spouse's approval before speaking to a therapist to assure them that you want to make things work. You also need to be aware of your spouse’s sexual needs and fulfill them. Absorbing wisdom from the therapist will help you show support, respect, and comfort in security for your partner. This can help in resolving the problems within the relationship, as well as showing them how much you care and are willing to help.