How To Handle Jealousy In A Relationship

 

This article discusses how to handle jealousy in a relationship. Jealousy can be a sign of insecurity or low self-esteem, and is often triggered by events unrelated to the partner. If you are feeling jealous, it is important to identify the reason for the jealousy and talk to your partner about it. Fighting your instinct and treating your partner fairly is the best way to prevent arguments and distance between you and your partner. - Start by talking your jealousy issues with your partner. It is important to understand how the other person is feeling, and do not jump to conclusions. Your partner may be feeling the same way as you are, or they may be feeling something else entirely. Open and honest conversation is essential to overcoming youave of jealousy in a relationship. Also, it can help provide an outside perspective on the situation and help you see things differently. It is important to talk about your feelings on a consistent basis so that both partners can understand where each other are coming from. It is also important to handle jealousy in a mature way so that it does not become an issue in the relationship.

 

To prevent jealous feelings from coming up, it is important to trust your partner and want the best for them. It is also important to remember your positive qualities and accept that you have certain feelings. Treat those feeling with respect and have complete faith in your partner. If jealousy arises, remember that next time you may be able to accept the situation without becoming jealous. Try to look for a reason why the situation has changed from past experiences and try to change the way you think about it instead of letting jealousy take over. Ultimately, it is important to remember that it is normal to experience jealousy in a relationship, but how we handle this feeling can make all the difference.

 

It is essential to communicate our feelings to our partner, even though it may be difficult, in order to maintain a healthy relationship. Our partner can tell us if the jealousy is justified or not, and together we can work out a way of dealing with the feeling. It is natural for everyone to feel jealous from time to time; however, it can become a problem if it leads to suspicion and mistrust or becomes too overwhelming. One way of dealing with jealousy is to talk about funny work stories or other change of topics that make you both feel good. Making sense of why you are feeling jealous can also be beneficial by looking at the underlying reasons behind this emotion.

 

Acknowledging and addressing jealousy can be the first step to becoming more secure in your relationship. It is important to create an open dialogue with your partner and give them the opportunity to understand why you are feeling jealous, which may lead to increased self awareness. Adjusting your partner’s behaviors that are creating jealousy can help improve and strengthen your relationship, as well as prevent any damaging effects on future relationships.

 

When jealousy comes, it is often a lie our own insecurities and self-esteem issues. If you have low self-esteem, it can lead to feelings of inadequacy and insecurity, creating doubts about your relationship with others. It is also possible that there is an underlying issue that has gone unsaid, such as an emotional need that has gone unmet. There are indications beneath the surface picture of jealousy which can provide clues to the possible unmet issues and low self-esteem.

 

To handle jealousy in a relationship, it is important to observe your partner’s behavior and actions. Consider your partner’s actions that trigger jealous feelings, and identify the cause of such feelings. It is also important to understand that sometimes contributing factors may be your partner’s inner insecurity or someone else’s actions. To address the issue, it is necessary to modify your partner’s actions and voice your concerns. Talk to them about the issue, raise concerns in a non-accusatory manner. Make sure you discuss openly without putting blame on anyone. Chhibber reckons that understanding yourself and having open conversations can help you identify the source of problem whether it is someone else's action or an inner insecurity. Open conversations can help address issues underlying jealousy.

 

Talk to your partner about how you are feeling and trust your partner to respond. Treat your partner with kindness, consideration, and respect while trying to understand their point of view. Let them know that you feel their pain but that it doesn't excuse any triggering behavior. Establish ground rules for both of you to follow in order to prevent further mistrust or arguments in the relationship. Control your feelings before giving the silent treatment or acting out of instinct, as this can be damaging in the long run. Take a step back from the situation and focus on yourself for a bit before trying to fight your instinctive reaction. This will give you time to think about how best to approach the problem without causing unnecessary hurt or damage.

 

Jealousy in a relationship can be hard to deal with but it is possible. The first thing to do is question your partner's loyalty and the way they interact with their friends. Don't jump to conclusions by snooping through their texts or chatting with your partner's friends - this will only make matters worse and create even more distance between you both.

 

Jealousy can be triggered by feelings of insecurity and can happen in any relationship - even one with a lot of love. If you're feeling jealous, it's important to acknowledge the thought and take a breath. As Sari Cooper, LCSW and Director of The Center for Love and Sex in New York City points out, it's important to "acknowledge the given situation without blaming yourself or your partner".

Speaking with a relationship therapist can also be an excellent way to get on top of your feelings and learn strategies to control your feelings.

 

Nicholas Purcell

Nicholas Purcell is a couples counsellor and psychotherapist based in Adelaide, Australia. He works with couples seeking healthy, adult relationship.

http://www.nicholaspurcell.com.au
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