How BPD effects relationships and how to survive

Introduction

If you have borderline personality disorder (BPD), it can be hard to function. You may feel confused and overwhelmed by your emotions and experiences. But BPD is treatable, and by seeking treatment and support, you can overcome this challenging condition.

In this article, we’ll explore how BPD affects relationships with others and what you can do about it. We’ll also discuss some of the ways that BPD influences your behavior in relationships—and what steps you can take to improve them.

BPD is a mental illness that affects your emotions, thoughts, and relationships with other people.

BPD is a mental illness that affects your emotions, thoughts, and relationships with other people. It's also known as "borderline personality disorder," or BPD.

BPD is not a split personality disorder or schizophrenia. People with BPD can have symptoms of these disorders, but their diagnosis should be based on the specific criteria for BPD that are outlined in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5).1

BPD is a lifelong condition, but it can be treated by learning healthy ways to manage intense emotions and improve relationships in your life.

The symptoms of BPD can be hard on you and those around you.

If you’re suffering from BPD, it can be hard on you and those around you. You may experience emotional instability, uncontrollable outbursts or anger and aggression that are not necessarily justified. People who live with someone with BPD often feel helpless because it is difficult for them to understand the thoughts and feelings of their loved ones.

The symptoms of BPD can cause difficulty in relationships because most people don't know how to deal with this type of disorder; therefore they end up getting hurt by the person they love most in their lives: themselves!

Realizing you have BPD may help you find support from others who are going through the same thing.

When you are diagnosed with BPD, it is important to know that you are not alone. There are many people who struggle with the same symptoms and experiences as you do. You can find support from your doctor or therapist, as well as from others in your life who have similar experiences. Support groups for those with BPD allow individuals to connect on a deeper level and provide mutual understanding for each other’s struggles. Many websites offer information about support groups in your area and how to locate them. You can also use an app like the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) app that provides information on mental health resources near you — including mental health professionals, psychologists, psychiatrists, therapists and self-care tips for managing stress

Another way to get help is to join a support group.

Joining a support group is another way to get help. Support groups are an excellent resource for people who have BPD, as they allow you to meet others who have similar experiences and struggles. This can be especially helpful if you feel that no one understands or has been through what you're going through. Joining a support group also helps you learn how other people cope with their emotions and stressful situations in ways that may work for you as well.

Support groups will likely have different rules about what's allowed during meetings and who participates in them—some may only allow those who identify as female or male, while others may allow all genders but ask participants not to use gendered pronouns (he/him/his instead of she/her/hers). Some groups might focus on specific issues like depression while others address more general mental health concerns like stress management or anger management; it's important that the group meets your needs so that it's effective for your recovery process!

Your doctor may suggest therapy as a way to manage your symptoms.

Therapy can help you to manage your symptoms, understand your condition better and feel less alone. It can also help you learn new ways of coping with the disorder.

You might also benefit from a mental health app that does things like monitor your mood or track when you need to take medication.

You may benefit from a mental health app that does things like monitor your mood, track when you need to take medication, and/or help you locate support groups or therapists. These apps are available for various platforms including Android and Apple devices.

Being open about your condition can help you learn how to deal with it and keep your friendships and family relationships strong.

You may find it difficult to discuss your BPD with other people. If so, there are several things that you can do to help yourself feel more comfortable.

  • Talk to your family and friends about how they can support you. Let them know what kinds of things would be helpful for them to say or do when they're dealing with a BPD episode or mood swing, or just feeling down. Ask them if they'd like some extra information about the condition so they understand what's going on in your life and can provide more helpful support in return.

  • Talk to a therapist about how you're doing in terms of managing the symptoms of BPD. He or she will be able to give feedback on how well therapy is working, as well as recommend any changes he or she thinks would help improve treatment outcomes (such as adding medication).

Conclusion

If you’re diagnosed with BPD, it doesn’t mean that your relationship will end. It does mean that you need to talk to your loved ones about how they can help you manage the disorder. The important thing is that both of you are willing and able to do whatever it takes to make things work—and if BPD has taught us anything, it’s that there are no limits on what we can accomplish when we give ourselves permission to ask for help

Nicholas Purcell

Nicholas Purcell is a couples counsellor and psychotherapist based in Adelaide, Australia. He works with couples seeking healthy, adult relationship.

http://www.nicholaspurcell.com.au
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