Nicholas Purcell Psychotherapist

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Women and infidelity

Introduction

Infidelity is a complicated issue, especially when it comes to women. In this article, we'll explore why women cheat and how you can prevent infidelity in your relationship.

Why women cheat

Women cheat for the same reasons as men. Like men, women are not immune to temptation. Women cheat because they are unhappy in their relationship or marriage. They might be having issues with their sex life or have developed feelings for another person outside of their marriage that can no longer be ignored.

They may also feel a sense of resentment towards their partner for something he has done in the past. A woman who has been hurt by her husband's infidelity may decide she will never be able to trust him again and find someone else who treats her better than he did before (or at all).

The rate of infidelity among women is increasing

The rate of infidelity among women is increasing.

In the past, it was thought that men were more likely to cheat than women. In fact, a study published in 2011 found that only 21% of men had cheated on their partner and only 18% of women had done so during their lifetime. However, recent studies show that this isn't necessarily true anymore: as women continue to gain more power in society and earn better salaries (the latter can help pay for an affair), they're catching up with men when it comes to cheating. The results from a survey conducted by the Kinsey Institute showed that 30% of both sexes were unfaithful in their relationships at some point during their lives—and 15-20% said they had cheated on their current partner within the last year!

Why are more women cheating?

There are a number of reasons that women cheat more than men.

  • Women are more independent than they were in the past, and this gives them more opportunities to cheat. They no longer need to rely on men for financial support, so they have the freedom to pursue sexual relationships without fear of being abandoned. In addition, many women have gained greater access to education and professional careers than ever before. As a result, these women feel empowered by their independence and are able to make decisions about whether or not they want an open marriage or if they want an affair with someone who is not their spouse.

  • Women have become sexually liberated over time; therefore, cheating is common among them now compared with what it was like in previous generations where people did not talk openly about sex as much as today (or maybe any).

Is it sex or something more?

Although men are more likely to cheat for sexual reasons, women are more likely to have an emotional affair. In other words, men may be more prone to having sex with a total stranger at the local bar while out on a business trip or enjoying the single life; however, women are more likely to pick up the phone and call their long-distance friend (who happens to live in another town) for a night of drinks and laughter—and then a romantic evening full of intimate conversation about everything from work stressors to relationship problems. It is this type of behavior that leads many women down the path of infidelity.

In addition to being more likely than men are to seek out emotional support from others outside their marriages through phone calls or emails, research shows that female infidelity is often driven by sexual encounters with friends or co-workers rather than random strangers on vacation (as it tends to be in male culture). Because these types of relationships tend not only toward secrecy but also toward deeper levels of intimacy between partners than would normally occur between just two people at work who were meeting socially after hours every day after work hours were over—with no strings attached!

No more double standard

Because women are no longer afraid to cheat, they have more opportunities to do so today than ever before. Women can get away with cheating much more easily than men can. A woman has a much easier time finding a man than a man does finding a woman, and those who are successful in their search for love may not want the same things in a partner as their male counterparts do. Men want one thing from women: sex! Men don’t care about personality or compatibility; they only care about getting laid!

Men will cheat on their partners if they think there is an advantage in doing so. For example, if you were married to someone who was overweight and unattractive, then why would you stay? You wouldn’t—you would leave them for someone else who was better looking or had more money! So it goes without saying that when these kinds of situations arise among women with husbands who aren’t very good looking or rich enough (or both), there might be some temptation on their part to look elsewhere for something better than what they have at home...

Cheating is becoming more common among married women.

You may have heard that while men are more likely to cheat on their partners, women are more likely than men to have an affair with a coworker. In fact, studies show that women cheat with people they already know—either someone they work with or someone they see in their social circle.

If you're worried your wife is cheating on you, keep an eye out for these signs of infidelity:

  • She avoids sex with you. If she's not interested in having sex anymore or has started saying no at least twice a week without giving any reason for it, this could be a sign of infidelity.

  • She starts spending time away from home without telling you where she is going and when she'll be back. If she goes out drinking with coworkers or friends every night instead of coming home after work like normal and never bothers letting you know where she went or when she'll return home so that if there's an emergency at midnight on Christmas Eve (because let's face it—there will always be an emergency), then something might just not be right about her behavior patterns overall!

How to decrease the chances of cheating

If you want to decrease the chances of cheating in your relationship, there are a few things you can do. First, be honest with yourself and your partner. Make sure that both of you are aware of what it is that they want out of their current relationship. This will help ensure that neither person feels unsatisfied or confused about where they stand in the partnership.

Secondly, make sure that both partners have a healthy relationship with themselves and each other––a key part in preventing infidelity. If one person does not feel good about who they are as an individual and how they relate to others romantically, it may cause them to act outside the confines of their current relationship for fulfillment elsewhere.*

Thirdly, talk about your needs and expectations from each other's personalities––what do you want from this person? How should this person treat me? How should I treat him/her? These conversations can help build trust between partners by giving them more insight into each other's mindsets so as not to cause misunderstandings when making decisions regarding future interactions with people outside their relationships.*

Finally: Don't be afraid! We all need some risk-taking every once in awhile if we want our lives

to feel fulfilling; we might as well try new things while still being faithful :)

Conclusion

As we saw with the men, cheating is a more complex issue than many people think. It’s not just about sex—it’s also about power and control. Women who feel they are being disrespected by their partners may feel the need to find someone else who will treat them better. And these days, there are plenty of ways for women to meet other men online or even in person if they don’t have friends or family members who might tip them off about an affair before it happens! In order to avoid infidelity, remember that communication is key—both with yourself and your partner about what you want in life together (and separately).