Nicholas Purcell Psychotherapist

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Surprising new Research on Cheating in Relationships

Introduction

Recent research on cheating has revealed some surprising findings that can help us understand why it occurs and what we can do to prevent it. Cheating within relationships is a complex issue, but the data gathered from this research provides some valuable insight into the motivations behind infidelity and how we can address it.

  1. Women cheat more than men

The first important finding of this study was that women are more likely to be unfaithful than men. While there is still a great deal of stigma attached to cheating, women are increasingly embracing the idea that they have just as much right as men do to pursue their own desires without sacrificing their relationships. This doesn’t mean that all women are going out and actively seeking affairs; rather, it means that they may be more open to exploring their options if something isn’t working in their current relationship.

2. Don’t work together if you want to stay together

Another key finding was that couples who work together are more likely to cheat than those who don’t. Working together with your partner can create an intense bond between you, but it also increases the risk of temptation due to the close proximity of one another and potential long hours spent together when working late nights or traveling for business trips. To protect against this, couples should set clear boundaries and expectations about their relationship outside of work and ensure that any work-related conversations or interactions remain professional in nature.

3. Once a cheater always a cheater

The final major finding of this research was that people who have experienced infidelity in a past relationship are more likely to cheat themselves. This is because these individuals have already had a taste of what it feels like to break trust within a relationship and may not feel as strongly about protecting the sanctity of monogamy as someone who has never been betrayed before. If you have experienced betrayal in the past, it is important to recognize this pattern and make an effort to break it by making conscious decisions for yourself within your new relationships.

Conclusion

These three discoveries provide valuable insight into the motivations behind cheating within relationships, helping us better understand why people might choose to stray and how we can protect our current partnerships from similar transgressions. Open communication between partners is key, as well as recognizing patterns from past experiences so you can take steps towards breaking them in future relationships. Ultimately, no two partnerships will ever be the same—so communicate with your partner frequently about your needs so you both remain on the same page about where things stand in your relationship going forward.